Jdbc中使用占位符来模糊查询要怎么做

对一个学生表进行模糊查询名字，占位符要怎么写才对，试过多次，不是报错就是返回的查询记录结果是0。。。各位大佬们，模糊查询时如果要使用占位符时要怎么做？

//根据性别和姓名的模糊查询查找学生
        String sql = "select * from student where name like '%?%' and sex = 0;";
        PreparedStatement ps = connection.prepareStatement(sql);
        //ps.setString(1,"精");
        ResultSet rs = ps.executeQuery();
        System.out.println(rs.next());
        while(rs.next()){
            System.out.println("id:"+rs.getInt("id")+
                    "name:"+rs.getString("name")+
                    "sex:"+rs.getBoolean("sex")+
                    "birthday:"+rs.getDate("birthday"));
        }